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Change Happens
Finding Your Way Through Life's Transitions

by C.W. Brister

Preface

Chapter 1. Changes, Challenges, and Choices

- Quiet Mutations
- Heroic Accomplishments
- The Border of Strangeness
- Some Price Tags of Change

Chapter 2. The Many Sides of Change

- The Pathfinders' Legacy
- Permanent and Passing Things
- Three Words for Building a Future
- How Change Happens

Chapter 3. When Things Are Set in Motion

- I Need Help Right Now!
- Kids Need Clues to Risks and Responsibilities
- Finding One's Own Way
- Learning to Tell Time
- It Just Keeps Going and Going
- Sifting Wisdom from Change

Chapter 4. Finding Your Way

- Exodus, Wilderness, and Promised Land
- Endings, the Neutral Zone, Beginnings
- Vision, Journey, and Return
- Loss, Grief, and Recovery
- Trauma, Post-Traumatic Stress, and Adaptation

Chapter 5. Pathways to Change Management

- Rediscover Myth and Fantasy
- Remember the Faithkeepers
- Learn to Read Again
- Be Open to the Unexpected
- Use Common Sense
- Find Internal Connections

Chapter 6. Losing the Place We Call Home

- The Inner Meaning of Home
- Losing the Sense of "Inner Home"
- The Dynamics of Inner Home Loss
- The Search for Inner Home

Chapter 7. The Struggle to Be Home at Last

- Some Assumptions about Family Systems
- A Story That Points the Way
- The Use of Metaphors as Signposts
- Helping Persons Find "Inner Home"
- No Place Like Home

Chapter 8. Taking Responsibility for Your Life

- The Courage to Go Forward
- Mastering Transitions
- Facing Reality
- Marking Life's Changes
- The Gift of Tomorrow

Appendix: Exploring Rituals of Transition

- The World of Ritual Experience
- How Rituals Embrace Change
- Rituals of Sustainability
- Rituals of Recognition
- Rituals of Welcome
- Rituals of Initiation
- Suggested Readings